I have seen so many of my homegirls friendships end because of a man. I can't recall losing a friend because of a guy. But I have heard stories about how scandalous female intentions can be. There is a "Girl Rule" that everyone knows: Never go after your friend's guy or anyone your friend has dealt with, on a relationship level. But often times this rule is violated. There are always excuses and reason as to why the crossing the line actions occurred, but the untrustworthy friend is often times not forgiven. The guy in the situation, is not looked at as anally as the female friend, because we hold our friends to an higher standard. But is this the right? Should you hold a lifetime grudge against your friend, and take the guy back after he shows a little remorse? Why can't we place blame on both of the parties involved, and dish out punishment according to the crime? Is it ok to hold your friends to a higher standards than your guy?
If my bestfriend and my guy crossed the line with each other, I feel as though I would be mad at both parties. But honestly, I will be more hurt by my friends actions, because I know how guys are (and this is no excuse). I would eventually forgive them both.