Monday, November 15, 2010

Wedding Time-Clock Is Ticking

I’m 23, been with my guy for 6 years (as of Dec.21.2010), and we have two lambs, J.R. and Landen. I am at the point in my life where I am ready to get married. We already live together and we are already a family. I know it sounds cliché, but I am tired of living in sin. I am not really sure if I want the actually Marriage more than I want the Big LAVISH Wedding. I am one of those girls who watches wedding shows and dream about her big day. I know that I will be a Bridezilla, lol. I have already warned my friends. I probably won't be as bad as some Bridezillas, but I know that I will be kind of demanding. I want a nice gown, an awesome venue, and a just about perfect day. I am so ready for my wedding day!!!! I have dreamed of this day for so long. But the thing is, he hasn’t popped the question! I want a traditional proposal, he better be down on one knee with my Princess cut solitaire diamond engagement ring. But in all honesty, I don’t know if I am ready to VOW my UNCONDITIONAL love for someone, when I get married, I want it to be for eternity. Unconditional, means that I would love him, basically no matter what. Although I do love him with all of my heart and soul, I am not quite sure if its unconditional, yet. I think we need a growth period, to find who we are and to explore what we really want, in out of life. Maybe I’ll be a dashing bride, in about 2 years.



Do you think a 23 year old is ready for marriage, honestly?

4 comments:

branchparis said...

yep...not too early not too late...u prolly do want to wait those extra 2 years out though jus in case

Miss.Fortune said...

age doesn't define love..
if you're both ready then why not?
but if you're not, then don't..
when I think of marriage, divorce is not an option..but thats just me. know who you are marrying. INSIDE and OUT. accept the flaws. be willing to fight for love..but be ready. I can't wait til my day.. I think I'll be a bridezilla too! lol grrr

xxxx said...

23 is too early, you still have alot to learn about yourself, you have been with dude for 6 years and so you really havent experienced anything else. Explore. Age is nothing but a number but it seems to me as though you arent ready, you seem a little hesitant with your words

LaQueisha said...

i cant speak for anyone else but i'm 23 and i am 4months away from my wedding day! love has no age....i mos def is ready because i know i love this man unconditionally for eternity..no question! i agree with the young lady..when i think of marriage divorce is not a option and neither is separation!wait on god's changing hands! love ya and be patient...good things come to those who wait!